Sunday, April 1, 2012

22 months

I don't have much to say that I haven't said before, but I couldn't let a monthly anniversary pass without writing something.

We drove by the garden last night after going to a movie and parked across the road from it. There were lights all around it and it always makes us feel better that it isn't dark in there at night.

We sat for awhile and I felt the sadness getting stronger and stronger and told Ted that I wanted to leave, that I was getting really sad and he said he was too.

I am at about the same stage in my current pregnancy that I was when Jacob died, although I didn't know he had died for another week. It's a scary week for me, I feel reassured with every kick that I feel from this baby, but then worry when I haven't felt anything for an hour or longer. I didn't need anything to magnify what a loss it was to lose Jacob, but it certainly feels more acute right now than it has in a little while.

It doesn't really matter how much time passes. Our boy isn't in our arms and that will always hurt.

5 comments:

The Housekeeper said...

I am saying a prayer for you x

Mama Jen said...

I totally get that the loss is magnified even more for you right now. Wishing you peace.

car said...

Love to you Dana and Jacob. Hope the next little while passes peacefully.

Amy L. said...

Dana, sending you tons of peace and love...

Drew's Parents said...

I realize now that I didn't post anything on the 1st. i am thinking about and remembering Jacob always <3
PS. I am also finding it hard to find words that haven't been said before. It will always be so hard to be without our sons. xoxo